Collect picture. Jo, 23, (left) and Bob, 29, (right) Wallace on their wedding day. Gloucester. 1994. See SWNS story SWSWAP: A miserable father can finally have a joyful relationship with his son after beating depression – by becoming the boy’s second MOTHER. Up until two years ago, 50-year-old Roxy Wallace was a burly bodyguard named ‘Bob’ who suffered from such severe depression he never played with his son William. But one day cross-dressing Bob finally opened up to wife of 20 years Jo, and said he wanted to live as a woman called Roxy. Ever since, Roxy, now a stay-at-home mum, has had a better relationship with nine-year-old William, who is on the autistic spectrum, because living as a woman has helped her beat her battle with depression.